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Nowadays, this society can be said to be more and more diverse, and at the same time, more and more emphasis is placed on freedom of speech, so whether in the East or the West, some people will make some inappropriate remarks, some involve personal attacks, and some go against the good customs of society. So as a modern person, how can you express your speech appropriately, so that you can express your own meaning without harming others?
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There is also an attitude, it is necessary to use cordiality and sincerity, not to use the method of forced confession, not to use a suspicious and hostile attitude, if you use suspicion, hostility, use the method of coercing confession, using the method of confession, then people must be very painful, and people will definitely give you a very ugly reaction. So there is a term in Buddhism called love language, love language is not the love that tells us to fall in love, but the kind face, after people listen to it, they feel that you are very compassionate to him, you care about him, you respect him, and you can help him, help him; Although he doesn't feel that you are assisting him and helping him, at least he feels that you respect him very much, and you treat him as if he is a teacher, like his own bosom friend to ask him for advice, so when you talk to him, he will be happy to accept you, and at the same time, he is also very willing to tell you what he knows, then the communication between them can be unimpeded.
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So in the Buddhist scriptures, there is a genre called argumentation, also called argumentation; The meaning of the argument depends on skill, and it is necessary to not only have the principle of logic, but also pay attention to the organization and use of words, and be able to express just the right concepts and reasons. It's best that when you express it, don't use too abstract, can be lived, can make people listen to it, and feel as if it is something that can be accessed at any time in life, this kind of example, like a story, appears in front of him, in this way, he will be easy to accept; If you are completely using a way of preaching, persuading, and subduing, a way of conquering, and a domineering attitude, if you want people to listen to you, then unless you yourself have great authority, they will be uncomfortable to listen to, and they will also be disgusted, and the effect you hope to get is not easy to happen.
This problem is not needed by modern people, not by modern talents, but also by people in ancient times and by people in the future. The same thing, good at expressing, makes people happy to listen to it, and is not good at expressing it, makes people angry when they hear it; So
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This timing is not right, that is to say, at this time you talk to him, or talk to anyone, talk about something that makes people listen to it, it is very painful, and if you get angry, you better not talk about it at this time, but after this period of time, you can still talk about it, after you talk about it, because it has passed, but it is still useful to talk about it, at least he will not do it again next time, or he will avoid it next time, there is such a situation, so the timing is very important.
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So this attitude is very important, attitude, you can't make people feel that you are ruthless and insidious; Your politeness, politeness to the point that people will be afraid when they feel it; Polite, polite so that people have a little distance, this is not right! So you have to feel kind and reliable, and feel that you are so sincere, so yes, this is a university question!
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Question: Nowadays, this society can be said to be more and more diverse, and at the same time, more and more emphasis is placed on freedom of speech, so whether in the East or the West, some people will make some inappropriate remarks, some involve personal attacks, and some violate the good customs of society. So as a modern person, how can you express your speech appropriately, so that you can express your own meaning without harming others? Venerable Sheng Yan taught: This is not a question that modern people need,..
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Also, the use of this word is also very important, people say that they are not good at using appropriate words and phrases, to express what you want to say in your heart, in your heart clearly say that I want you, please tell me your opinion, the result is the opposite, I ask you, is this the case, if you say the other way around, please advise, I think you will be willing to advise me, these two expressions, the way of the two languages is completely different, then the other party you use the first expression of the language, people will be angry, you use the second language, People will rejoice.
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